It is so easy to take our significant others or spouses for granted. The longer we’ve been together, the more complacent we become. Yes, we all get upset sometimes and lose our cool; however, words are so powerful that we need to be mindful of what we allow to come out of our mouths, especially when conversing or even during an argument with our beloved. If you want to get a good night sleep then keep reading…
Red Flags: What NOT to say to your partner:
- I’m not interested in knowing about your youthful days
- Don’t tell me the details of your day
- I don’t really care about what you do
- I don’t like it when you want to talk to me about everything
- I am a big flirt
- You are not in my league
- I would not be with you if you were broke
- I am only with you because of our child
- I don’t want to meet any of your friends or family
- You need to get rid of all your friends of the opposite sex
- My ex was so much better than you
- You make me sick
- You are really dumb
- Are you stupid or something?
- You are useless
- I can have friends of the opposite sex but you can only have friends that I vouch for
- Yeah, we’re married but I don’t want you to join me on my big venture
- A woman’s place is…
- I don’t want to talk about our issues
- I’ve always done it this way plus my ex never complained
- I was only flirting, it’s no big deal
- Without me, you are nothing
- I don’t need to tell you why I’m always late
- I can visit dating sites and chat without you being in my business
- I don’t have any money to pay the bills and I’m fine with that
- You used to be so much more appealing, now you’re just getting old
- I’ll be back tomorrow…maybe
- This girl was so fine that she looked like Halle Berry (Think!)
- I will never date another Dime
- This is exactly why I’d rather talk to your friend rather than you
- I can’t stand you
There is a difference between suppressing another person’s expression and requiring respect. If you would like to keep the peace in your home then come up with a better way to communicate with your partner. It’s not attractive when a man or woman cannot control his/her words. It shows your immaturity and childish ways. Let’s aim for better.
Happy Living,
